Calling a place home comes easy to me. Most houses that I've stayed in, fortunately, have become home; so have many people, and they continue to be. But there is one image in particular that comes unbidden every time someone utters the word home……that of a seven year old running around in a mosaic floor (all Indian millennials will know the exact pattern I'm thinking of), darting from room to room, looking at the old TV, trying to scale the bookshelves. She appears to look around the house as if it holds answers to all the mysteries in the universe, as if she didn't experience the greatest loss of her life little less than a year ago in that very same house. I definitely came into my own person in college but I think I started to see it take shape in that house. Almost like an unfinished Monet painting, or one that was looked at too closely - as what looked like random paint blotches, waiting for an experienced observer to view it from a distance to get a perspective on the...
I've never seen love age. When I say love, I mean love between two people in companionship. My dad died when I was young and so did my grandfather. So sadly all I saw was a pair of women who were mourning their love. Don't get me wrong, their love didn't fade way. Amma and Appachan's love lives through the fond stories my mother tells and the little private smile she has when I call her "aanoo" (ആനോ) - the name my dad used to call her. So I've seen long lasting love; but that love is a longing, a lament. My parents had a difficult and impoverished childhood, which is probably why I don't see a lot of friendships that stood the test of time. For some weird reason, none of my siblings also has friends that could show me how love travelled through life and aged. Which is why the videos of old couples bring tears to my eyes - to see the fortune of being in love and being reminded that you get to share your life with them everyday. The little cynic in me ...
( I am a first year political science student in Delhi University. So if the graduates feel like this is not really right, please blame it on my inexperience as a political science student. Also, this post has been written keeping in mind a female perspective though many of it is applicable to all sexes) If you are a political science student you are most likely: - A civil service aspirant for sure. - A politician in the making?? - She/he didn't study maths in 12th (so obviously dumb), so can't take economics and doesn't have good memory to do history. - Knows only to debate and manipulate people and in reality just sits back, relaxes and doesn't actually learn anything. - Oh! She's a feminist. Now she wants to rule over the world. - It's just elections and parties, what is there to study as a full- blown course? And lastly,.... - I asked her why she took political science. She said she liked the discipline. ...
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